FordeFables
Follow Me:
  • Home
  • Site Index
  • About Me
    • Radio Interviews
  • My Books
    • Book List & Themes
    • Strictly for Adults Novels >
      • Rebecca's Revenge
      • Come Back Peter
    • Tales from Portlaw >
      • No Need to Look for Love
      • 'The Love Quartet' >
        • The Tannery Wager
        • 'Fini and Archie'
        • 'The Love Bridge'
        • 'Forgotten Love'
      • The Priest's Calling Card >
        • Chapter One - The Irish Custom
        • Chapter Two - Patrick Duffy's Family Background
        • Chapter Three - Patrick Duffy Junior's Vocation to Priesthood
        • Chapter Four - The first years of the priesthood
        • Chapter Five - Father Patrick Duffy in Seattle
        • Chapter Six - Father Patrick Duffy, Portlaw Priest
        • Chapter Seven - Patrick Duffy Priest Power
        • Chapter Eight - Patrick Duffy Groundless Gossip
        • Chapter Nine - Monsignor Duffy of Portlaw
        • Chapter Ten - The Portlaw Inheritance of Patrick Duffy
      • Bigger and Better >
        • Chapter One - The Portlaw Runt
        • Chapter Two - Tony Arrives in California
        • Chapter Three - Tony's Life in San Francisco
        • Chapter Four - Tony and Mary
        • Chapter Five - The Portlaw Secret
      • The Oldest Woman in the World >
        • Chapter One - The Early Life of Sean Thornton
        • Chapter Two - Reporter to Investigator
        • Chapter Three - Search for the Oldest Person Alive
        • Chapter Four - Sean Thornton marries Sheila
        • Chapter Five - Discoveries of Widow Friggs' Past
        • Chapter Six - Facts and Truth are Not Always the Same
      • Sean and Sarah >
        • Chapter 1 - 'Return of the Prodigal Son'
        • Chapter 2 - 'The early years of sweet innocence in Portlaw'
        • Chapter 3 - 'The Separation'
        • Chapter 4 - 'Separation and Betrayal'
        • Chapter 5 - 'Portlaw to Manchester'
        • Chapter 6 - 'Salford Choices'
        • Chapter 7 - 'Life inside Prison'
        • Chapter 8 - 'The Aylesbury Pilgrimage'
        • Chapter 9 - Sean's interest in stone masonary'
        • Chapter 10 - 'Sean's and Tony's Partnership'
        • Chapter 11 - 'Return of the Prodigal Son'
      • The Alternative Christmas Party >
        • Chapter One
        • Chapter Two
        • Chapter Three
        • Chapter Four
        • Chapter Five
        • Chapter Six
        • Chapter Seven
        • Chapter Eight
      • The Life of Liam Lafferty >
        • Chapter One: ' Liam Lafferty is born'
        • Chapter Two : 'The Baptism of Liam Lafferty'
        • Chapter Three: 'The early years of Liam Lafferty'
        • Chapter Four : Early Manhood
        • Chapter Five : Ned's Secret Past
        • Chapter Six : Courtship and Marriage
        • Chapter Seven : Liam and Trish marry
        • Chapter Eight : Farley meets Ned
        • Chapter Nine : 'Ned comes clean to Farley'
        • Chapter Ten : Tragedy hits the family
        • Chapter Eleven : The future is brighter
      • The life and times of Joe Walsh >
        • Chapter One : 'The marriage of Margaret Mawd and Thomas Walsh’
        • Chapter Two 'The birth of Joe Walsh'
        • Chapter Three 'Marriage breakup and betrayal'
        • Chapter Four: ' The Walsh family breakup'
        • Chapter Five : ' Liverpool Lodgings'
        • Chapter Six: ' Settled times are established and tested'
        • Chapter Seven : 'Haworth is heaven is a place on earth'
        • Chapter Eight: 'Coming out'
        • Chapter Nine: Portlaw revenge
        • Chapter Ten: ' The murder trial of Paddy Groggy'
        • Chapter Eleven: 'New beginnings'
      • The Woman Who Hated Christmas >
        • Chapter One: 'The Christmas Enigma'
        • Chapter Two: ' The Breakup of Beth's Family''
        • Chapter Three: From Teenager to Adulthood.'
        • Chapter Four: 'The Mills of West Yorkshire.'
        • Chapter Five: 'Harrison Garner Showdown.'
        • Chapter Six : 'The Christmas Dance'
        • Chapter Seven : 'The ballot for Shop Steward.'
        • Chapter Eight: ' Leaving the Mill'
        • Chapter Ten: ' Beth buries her Ghosts'
        • Chapter Eleven: Beth and Dermot start off married life in Galway.
        • Chapter Twelve: The Twin Tragedy of Christmas, 1992.'
        • Chapter Thirteen: 'The Christmas star returns'
        • Chapter Fourteen: ' Beth's future in Portlaw'
      • The Last Dance >
        • Chapter One - ‘Nancy Swales becomes the Widow Swales’
        • Chapter Two ‘The secret night life of Widow Swales’
        • Chapter Three ‘Meeting Richard again’
        • Chapter Four ‘Clancy’s Ballroom: March 1961’
        • Chapter Five ‘The All Ireland Dancing Rounds’
        • Chapter Six ‘James Mountford’
        • Chapter Seven ‘The All Ireland Ballroom Latin American Dance Final.’
        • Chapter Eight ‘The Final Arrives’
        • Chapter Nine: 'Beth in Manchester.'
      • 'Two Sisters' >
        • Chapter One
        • Chapter Two
        • Chapter Three
        • Chapter Four
        • Chapter Five
        • Chapter Six
        • Chapter Seven
        • Chapter Eight
        • Chapter Nine
        • Chapter Ten
        • Chapter Eleven
        • Chapter Twelve
        • Chapter Thirteen
        • Chapter Fourteen
        • Chapter Fifteen
        • Chapter Sixteen
        • Chapter Seventeen
      • Fourteen Days >
        • Chapter One
        • Chapter Two
        • Chapter Three
        • Chapter Four
        • Chapter Five
        • Chapter Six
        • Chapter Seven
        • Chapter Eight
        • Chapter Nine
        • Chapter Ten
        • Chapter Eleven
        • Chapter Twelve
        • Chapter Thirteen
        • Chapter Fourteen
      • ‘The Postman Always Knocks Twice’ >
        • Author's Foreword
        • Contents
        • Chapter One
        • Chapter Two
        • Chapter Three
        • Chapter Four
        • Chapter Five
        • Chapter Six
        • Chapter Seven
        • Chapter Eight
        • Chapter Nine
        • Chapter Ten
        • Chapter Eleven
        • Chapter Twelve
        • Chapter Thirteen
        • Chapter Fourteen
        • Chapter Fifteen
        • Chapter Sixteen
        • Chapter Seventeen
        • Chapter Eighteen
        • Chapter Nineteen
        • Chapter Twenty
        • Chapter Twenty-One
        • Chapter Twenty-Two
  • Celebrity Contacts
    • Contacts with Celebrities >
      • Journey to the Stars
      • Number 46
      • Shining Stars
      • Sweet Serendipity
      • There's Nowt Stranger Than Folk
      • Caught Short
      • A Day with Hannah Hauxwell
    • More Contacts with Celebrities >
      • Judgement Day
      • The One That Got Away
      • Two Women of Substance
      • The Outcasts
      • Cars for Stars
      • Going That Extra Mile
      • Lady in Red
      • Television Presenters
  • Thoughts and Musings
    • Bereavement >
      • Time to clear the Fallen Leaves
      • Eulogy for Uncle Johnnie
    • Nature >
      • Why do birds sing
    • Bill's Personal Development >
      • What I'd like to be remembered for
      • Second Chances
      • Roots
      • Holidays of Old
      • Memorable Moments of Mine
      • Cleckheaton Consecration
      • Canadian Loves
      • Mum's Wisdom
      • 'Early life at my Grandparents'
      • Family Holidays
      • 'Mother /Child Bond'
      • Childhood Pain
      • The Death of Lady
      • 'Soldiering On'
      • 'Romantic Holidays'
      • 'On the roof'
      • Always wear clean shoes
      • 'Family Tree'
      • The importance of poise
      • 'Growing up with grandparents'
    • Love & Romance >
      • Dancing Partner
      • The Greatest
      • Arthur & Guinevere
      • Hands That Touch
    • Christian Thoughts, Acts and Words >
      • Reuben's Naming Ceremony
      • Love makes the World go round
      • Walks along the Mirfield canal
  • My Wedding
  • My Funeral
  • Audio Downloads
    • Audio Stories >
      • Douglas the Dragon
      • Sleezy the Fox
      • Maw
      • Midnight Fighter
      • Action Annie
      • Songs & Music >
        • Douglas the Dragon Play >
          • Our World
          • You On My Mind
        • The Ballad of Sleezy the Fox
        • Be My Life
    • 'Relaxation Rationale' >
      • Relax with Bill
    • The Role of a Step-Father
  • My Singing Videos
    • Christmas Songs & Carols
  • Bill's Blog
    • Song For Today
    • Thought For Today
    • Poems
    • Funny and Frivolous
    • Miscellaneous Muses
  • Contact Me

Song For Today: 3rd August 2020

3/8/2020

0 Comments

 
I dedicate my song today to my nephew Martin Greenwood who lives in Jersey with his wife Andrea Greenwood (my niece) and their son, Louis. Martin celebrates his birthday today. I also dedicate today’s song to Dianne Wooster Maggard who lives in Seven Fountains in Virginia, U.S.A., and Lesley Johnson Wilkinson who lives in my teenage hunting ground of Cleckheaton, West Yorkshire. Both Dianne and Lesley celebrate their birthday today also. I hope that you two ladies enjoy your special day and thank you for being my Facebook friend. I also dedicate my song to Riley White who lives in Lafayette, Tennessee, and who also celebrates his birthday today. Have a great day, Riley White.

My song today is, ‘Gypsies, Tramps, and Thieves’. This was a song by American singer and actress, Cher, for her seventh solo studio album ‘Cher’. It was released in 1971 as her album’s lead single. The song was written by Bob Stone. After Sonny Bono’s first attempts at reviving Cher's recording career had been unsuccessful, Kapp Records recruited Garrett as her producer and he chose Stone to write a song specifically for Cher, to cater more to an adult audience.

Lyrically, the song describes the life of a girl who was ‘born in the wagon of a travelling show’, and it contains themes of racism, teenage pregnancy, and prostitution. Critically, ‘Gypsies, Tramps & Thieves’ has been met with appreciation ever since its release.

It earned Cher her first ‘Grammy Award nomination in the ‘Best Female Pop Vocal Performance’ category. Commercially, it became her first solo number-one single on the ‘Billboard Hot 100’ chart and on the ‘Canadian Singles Chart’, while reaching the top five in Australia, Ireland, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom. It was the first single by a solo artist to rank Number one on the U.S. ‘Billboard Hot 100’ chart at the same time as on the ‘Canadian Singles Chart’. It was certified platinum by the ‘Recording Industry Association of America’ for shipment of one million copies across the United States. At the time of its release, ‘Gypsies, Tramps & Thieves’ was the biggest-selling single in the history of ‘MCA Records’. The song was described by Rob Tennanbaum in Billboard magazine as one of the greatest songs of the 20th century.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
​
I was born in Ireland, a land that has always been steeped in folklore and superstition. In my youth, there could not have been a greater difference in how both the Irish and the English viewed the travellers of the road. Whereas the English would refer to the travelling gypsies in their use of the derogatory term ‘Tinkers’, the Irish would call them 'Romany travellers of the road'.
In some ways, both Irish and English nationals ‘feared’ the presence of the travelling gypsies, but in a much different way.

Whereas the English generally considered all gypsies to be unclean in appearance, vulgar in mannerisms and crude in lifestyle, the presence of any gypsy camp nearby made this travelling band the perfect scapegoat for all the rubbish scattered in the locality, all the thefts and criminal damage committed in the neighbourhood, and even for the murder or disappearance of young children who were believed to be kidnapped by some gypsies in the dark of night.

The Irish, on the other hand, held the gypsy in what can best be described as ‘feared respect’. At worst, they were seen as common travellers of the road, making a humble living from their trade in horses and ponies at the open market, along with the sale of pots, pans and washing line pegs to the houses of village communities as they passed through on their travels. At best, the gypsies who professed to be of true Romany heritage were viewed by many Irish people as being prophets and Romany doctors the road. Some Romany travellers were believed to possess the knowledge of mysterious remedies from the woods, the highways, and byways of nature that were capable of curing all manner of illness and ailments, while others could tell a person’s fate or fortune by reading the lifelines in the palm of their hand.

One of the very first Irish stories that my mother told me as a child being brought up in West Yorkshire, England after the Forde family had migrated across the Irish Sea from County Waterford in the mid-1940s was of the ‘specialness’ of my own birth. As an established published author in later life, I would elaborate upon my own story in my last published novel entitled, ‘The Postman Always Knocks Twice’. This book is available in E-book format or hard copy from amazon.com
 with all profits from its sale going to charitable causes, as I did with the previous £200,000 book-sale profits given to charity between 1990-2003.

My mother’ story went as follows:
One day, during the early months of 1942 in the village of Portlaw, County Waterford, my mother heard a knock at the door of my grandparent’s house and opened it to a Romany traveller who was standing there with a basket of wooden pegs she was selling. Now, all Irish people believe that if ever they allow a visiting gypsy to one’s home to go away empty-handed, they will be doomed to seven years of bad luck because of 'the gypsy curse'. So, my mother bought a few wooden pegs she did not require.

Then, the traveller said to my mother, “For a silver sixpence, missus, I can tell you about the child you are carrying”. My mother’s pregnancy was known only to herself at the time, as she had only learned of it a few days earlier and had not yet informed her parents or anyone else. Also, being a mere two month’s pregnant with myself (and not yet showing by any increased size of her belly) she was instantly intrigued at the gypsy's insight and gave her visitor a six-penny piece from her purse which she could ill afford to spend. The peg-selling gypsy looked at the lifelines on my mother’s palm and said, “The child you are having will be a ‘special’ child, missus”.

Having captured my mother's interest, and having got a silver sixpence out of my mother in exchange for her prophesy, the traveller did not want to miss the opportunity of obtaining more money. So she offered to read my mother's hand and tell her more if my mother placed in her visitor's hand another and larger silver coin. Deeply intrigued, my mother asked, “And will my baby be a boy or a girl?” The gypsy indicated that for one shilling, she would tell my mother about the child she was expecting, as well as all the other children that she would also give birth to. Being already in for a sixpence, my mother emptied her purse and gave the Romany traveller her last shilling to reveal more.

The Romany traveller said, “The child you are having, missus, will be a ‘special’ child. It will be a boy and your son will be the firstborn of seven children you will have. As you were also the firstborn of seven children (a fact that was true, including a stillborn sister) and are a mother who will also give birth to seven children, your son will be a ‘special’ child”. With this having been prophesised, the Romany traveller left saying, “Bless all in this house".

Seven months later I was born in my grandparent’s house at 14, William’s Street, Portlaw, County Waterford. My mother told me that it was no mere coincidence that the house was numbered 14 (to indicate the significance of being the oldest of seven who would give birth to seven) as 7+7= 14. My mum also pointed out that even my Christian name was symbolically special. I was baptised with the Christian name of my maternal grandfather, William, and even my father’s closest brother was called Billy. She also said that it was fitting I should bear the very same name as the street where I was born!

Every day of my childhood until my years of adulthood, never one day would be allowed to pass by when my mother did not tell me that I was a ‘special’ child. I now know that every mother probably thinks of her firstborn as being a ‘special’ child, but for me during my childhood years, my mother’s unshakable belief in the truth of my ‘specialness’ made me believe in the gypsy’s prophesy also.

Everything unusual which happened to me thereafter happened in my mother’s mind because I was ‘special’. When, at the age of eleven years I got run over by a large vehicle and suffered massive and multiple life-threatening injuries which included a damaged spine, a crushed chest, and badly mangled legs, the doctors said I would die. When I did not, my mother had no doubt as to why. It was because ‘I was special’. When I pulled through the worse of my multiple injuries, and my damaged spine then led the doctors to say that I would never walk again, and I did three years later, my mother believed that was also because ‘I was special’. After living through my childhood and growing into manhood being told every day by a mother who loved me that ‘I was special’, it was only natural that I too came to believe that I was a ‘special’ person.

So, I became a boy who grew up being told and believing he had been born ‘special. I became a person accomplishing ‘special’ things and even learning to do very ordinary things in the most ‘special’ of ways. My ‘specialness’ had been conferred on me by a peg-selling gypsy for the price of a sixpenny piece and was confirmed to me every day of my life thereafter by my loving mother, and substantiated by my subsequent life experiences. For the first twenty-five years of my life, I grew up believing that ‘I was special’ and acting in ‘special ways’. I then spent the following fifty-two years of my life discovering and telling every other person whom I came into contact with that ‘they are also special’.

It is strange how long a superstition can live in the heart of an Irish person once the seed of credibility has been sewn. Even in adult life, whenever a traveller came to my door selling some product, I could never send them away empty-handed. Indeed, one such female gypsy traveller came to my home in Mirfield one Christmas Eve and I gave her a few pounds. Every Christmas Eve for the following seven years, she would return for her few pounds Christmas present. Indeed, when she stopped coming, for weeks afterward I worried about what had happened to her.

Years later, after I married my wife, Sheila, and I then lived in Haworth, whenever we walked down Main Street, we would see usually see a Romanian woman in her 50s selling copies of the ‘Big Issue’ magazine by the church steps. In my mind’s eye, she looked like the travelling gypsy who used to visit my Mirfield home on a Christmas Eve many years earlier. Each time I see this ‘Big Issue’ seller in Haworth’s Main Street, I will give her a few pounds and we also buy a hot coffee from the café where we get our breakfast and take it across to her. Anita is her name, and Romania is the country she came from before settling in West Yorkshire.

Love and peace Bill xxx
0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Archives

    July 2021
    June 2021
    May 2021
    April 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012
    August 2012
    July 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012
    February 2012
    January 2012

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.