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- No Need to Look for Love
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The Priest's Calling Card
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- Chapter One - The Irish Custom
- Chapter Two - Patrick Duffy's Family Background
- Chapter Three - Patrick Duffy Junior's Vocation to Priesthood
- Chapter Four - The first years of the priesthood
- Chapter Five - Father Patrick Duffy in Seattle
- Chapter Six - Father Patrick Duffy, Portlaw Priest
- Chapter Seven - Patrick Duffy Priest Power
- Chapter Eight - Patrick Duffy Groundless Gossip
- Chapter Nine - Monsignor Duffy of Portlaw
- Chapter Ten - The Portlaw Inheritance of Patrick Duffy
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Sean and Sarah
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- Chapter 1 - 'Return of the Prodigal Son'
- Chapter 2 - 'The early years of sweet innocence in Portlaw'
- Chapter 3 - 'The Separation'
- Chapter 4 - 'Separation and Betrayal'
- Chapter 5 - 'Portlaw to Manchester'
- Chapter 6 - 'Salford Choices'
- Chapter 7 - 'Life inside Prison'
- Chapter 8 - 'The Aylesbury Pilgrimage'
- Chapter 9 - Sean's interest in stone masonary'
- Chapter 10 - 'Sean's and Tony's Partnership'
- Chapter 11 - 'Return of the Prodigal Son'
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The Life of Liam Lafferty
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- Chapter One: ' Liam Lafferty is born'
- Chapter Two : 'The Baptism of Liam Lafferty'
- Chapter Three: 'The early years of Liam Lafferty'
- Chapter Four : Early Manhood
- Chapter Five : Ned's Secret Past
- Chapter Six : Courtship and Marriage
- Chapter Seven : Liam and Trish marry
- Chapter Eight : Farley meets Ned
- Chapter Nine : 'Ned comes clean to Farley'
- Chapter Ten : Tragedy hits the family
- Chapter Eleven : The future is brighter
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The life and times of Joe Walsh
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- Chapter One : 'The marriage of Margaret Mawd and Thomas Walsh’
- Chapter Two 'The birth of Joe Walsh'
- Chapter Three 'Marriage breakup and betrayal'
- Chapter Four: ' The Walsh family breakup'
- Chapter Five : ' Liverpool Lodgings'
- Chapter Six: ' Settled times are established and tested'
- Chapter Seven : 'Haworth is heaven is a place on earth'
- Chapter Eight: 'Coming out'
- Chapter Nine: Portlaw revenge
- Chapter Ten: ' The murder trial of Paddy Groggy'
- Chapter Eleven: 'New beginnings'
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The Woman Who Hated Christmas
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- Chapter One: 'The Christmas Enigma'
- Chapter Two: ' The Breakup of Beth's Family''
- Chapter Three: From Teenager to Adulthood.'
- Chapter Four: 'The Mills of West Yorkshire.'
- Chapter Five: 'Harrison Garner Showdown.'
- Chapter Six : 'The Christmas Dance'
- Chapter Seven : 'The ballot for Shop Steward.'
- Chapter Eight: ' Leaving the Mill'
- Chapter Ten: ' Beth buries her Ghosts'
- Chapter Eleven: Beth and Dermot start off married life in Galway.
- Chapter Twelve: The Twin Tragedy of Christmas, 1992.'
- Chapter Thirteen: 'The Christmas star returns'
- Chapter Fourteen: ' Beth's future in Portlaw'
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The Last Dance
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- Chapter One - ‘Nancy Swales becomes the Widow Swales’
- Chapter Two ‘The secret night life of Widow Swales’
- Chapter Three ‘Meeting Richard again’
- Chapter Four ‘Clancy’s Ballroom: March 1961’
- Chapter Five ‘The All Ireland Dancing Rounds’
- Chapter Six ‘James Mountford’
- Chapter Seven ‘The All Ireland Ballroom Latin American Dance Final.’
- Chapter Eight ‘The Final Arrives’
- Chapter Nine: 'Beth in Manchester.'
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‘The Postman Always Knocks Twice’
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- Author's Foreword
- Contents
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- Chapter Four
- Chapter Five
- Chapter Six
- Chapter Seven
- Chapter Eight
- Chapter Nine
- Chapter Ten
- Chapter Eleven
- Chapter Twelve
- Chapter Thirteen
- Chapter Fourteen
- Chapter Fifteen
- Chapter Sixteen
- Chapter Seventeen
- Chapter Eighteen
- Chapter Nineteen
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- Chapter Twenty-One
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'A Perceptual Experience'
We have all heard the question: “Does the falling tree make a noise if there is nobody there to hear it?” Or 'When a feather falls from the air above when someone is around, does it make a noise when it lands?' Alternately, we are asked, 'Does an infant crying in the night have no language or a cry!'
In these three conundrums, ‘relativism’ plays its part, as it does with the functioning of perception, and in particular, the accuracy of two people’s perception who are part of the same event.
In these three conundrums, ‘relativism’ plays its part, as it does with the functioning of perception, and in particular, the accuracy of two people’s perception who are part of the same event.
The truth about ‘a shared experience’ is essentially that there is no such thing! Whereas two or more persons can be a part of the same external event, it doesn’t follow that what they will have been part of is the same experience. It will have been experienced differently by each of them. They will both process what they saw, heard and perceived within that event uniquely differently. For instance, were two people to enter the same room at precisely the same time and both observe a woman half-way through the process of either rising from or sitting back down on her chair, but poised momentarily for the slightest fraction of a second, could either observer truly know if the woman was in the process of standing up or sitting down?
We have all heard the story about the man who saw the old woman with a walking stick at the side of a busy road and after assisting her across the road, discovered that she had already crossed the road the other way mere minutes before he'd arrived on the scene to erroneously intervene!
Consider the following three propositions, questions and answers:
Proposition one: There are two people having a heated row, a man and a woman. During the altercation, the man loses his temper and hits the woman across the face with the inside of an open hand. In this example, does the man ‘slap’ the woman across the face or does he ‘punch’ her?
Answer one: He can be accurately described as having ‘slapped’ her.
Proposition one: There are two people having a heated row, a man and a woman. During the altercation, the man loses his temper and hits the woman across the face with the inside of an open hand. In this example, does the man ‘slap’ the woman across the face or does he ‘punch’ her?
Answer one: He can be accurately described as having ‘slapped’ her.
Proposition two: The same scenario as before between the man and woman rowing, but on this occasion the man clenches his hand into a fist and strikes the woman in the face. In this example does the man ‘slap’ the woman across the face or does he ‘punch’ her?
Answer two: He can accurately be described as having ‘punched’ her.
Answer two: He can accurately be described as having ‘punched’ her.
Proposition three: The same scenario as before between the man and woman rowing, but on this occasion before the man strikes the woman in the face he has the palm of his hand in a ‘half-open, half-closed’ position.
In this example does the man ‘slap’ the woman or does he ‘punch’ her.
Answer three: The answer will depend upon ‘who’ is assessing and experiencing the situation; whether it is the woman or the man in question. If it is the person ‘being hit’ who is assessing the situation, she will most certainly say and perceive the act as ‘having been punched’. However, if the person assessing the situation is the man ‘who did the hitting’, he will most likely say that he ‘slapped the woman’. Both the man doing the hitting and the woman being hit might honestly perceive the action as having been a ‘slap’ or a ‘punch!’
In this example does the man ‘slap’ the woman or does he ‘punch’ her.
Answer three: The answer will depend upon ‘who’ is assessing and experiencing the situation; whether it is the woman or the man in question. If it is the person ‘being hit’ who is assessing the situation, she will most certainly say and perceive the act as ‘having been punched’. However, if the person assessing the situation is the man ‘who did the hitting’, he will most likely say that he ‘slapped the woman’. Both the man doing the hitting and the woman being hit might honestly perceive the action as having been a ‘slap’ or a ‘punch!’
Who’d want to be on a Jury?
Would the Jury come back with a different verdict if it was either an all male or all female Jury? What do you think?
Copyright William Forde April, 2012.
Would the Jury come back with a different verdict if it was either an all male or all female Jury? What do you think?
Copyright William Forde April, 2012.