"One of my gay working colleagues called Peter with whom I worked in the Probation Service, once told me the secret of a man getting a good-looking woman without constantly scouring dating sites for them. 'I've always found that because I'm gay and never look for them, I seem to attract them in their droves like bees to the honeypot. If you don't look for them, Bill, they'll be guaranteed to come looking for you!'
While Peter's assessment of attracting women paradoxically held some merit, even though it was their brothers who he really fancied, I'm sure it was his Adonis face and athletic body that pulled them in. Peter, whose favourite past time was fishing, religiously attended the gym in Holmfirth for an hour daily, and even beneath his muscle tight T-shirt one could sense the movement of an abdominal structure that would not bloat and bulge with the advancement of middle-age spread. 'Don't give in too easily" he would counsel, 'there are many ways to persuade a good-looking woman who has never held a hot rod in her life to go fishing on a sunny afternoon!'
There again, I suppose there is something to say for 'Going Commando' for certain guys if the boot fits." William Forde: October 20th, 2017